Hi Zoltan,
Like you, we had doubts about in-mast furling when we bought Wild Thyme, but it didn't take long to work out that changing to slab reefing would not be a sensible option. To make a good job of it would require a new mast and boom.
She came with sails which we knew were in urgent need of replacement so did that in the first few months. You have options for no battens, which requires a negative roach (concave leech) short battens which do not overlap vertically and which can support a straight leech and full height battens which will support a conventional positive roach (concave leech). This last design is typified by the Maxi Roach brand and benefits from the availability of laminar sailcloth which can be thinner than woven cloth for the same strength. We chose the small batten option.
That was 12 years ago and we have sailed in some rough weather since then, but not crossed any oceans. We have experienced moe than 1 jam, arising out of operator error rather than problems with the system but have always solved them as Pete describes - go backwards and forwards until the jam clears. The worst course of action when a jam starts is to just pull harder - that will just make a tighter jam to clear. Every jam we have had has been due to a fold in the sail trying to roll onto the mandrel. All the talk about boom angle is really about balancing leeh and foottension as the sail is furled and the correct angle will be dependent on the cut of the sail. On our M425, it is cut as designed so the boom is above the 90 degree position. It's worth marking the topping lift with tapeat the clutch to show the correct position for setting / furling or reefing. In practice you don't need to change this when sailing, unless the topping lift car rattling inside the boom drives you crazy.
Like Pete, over the years we have come to prefer this arrangement over the more conventional slab reefing arrangement - it permits easy reefing fromthe cockpit. and much easier stowing up even as compared to a stackpack - a very valuable asset for short or single handed sailing.
If it's a Kemp or Selden system, setting, reefing and furling should all be done on starboard tack to fulfill the need Pete describesfor the sail to flow freely onto the mandrel.
Hope this helps.
Peter.